The best way to build your relationships is to be present and listen. – Ellie Parvin
Did you know that the most neglected part of verbal communication is listening?
Communication is a “two-way street” indeed. In fact, the best communicators are often the best listeners. Think about your closest relationships (family and dearest friends) and how you know what they are feeling, just by the tone of their voice or look in demeanor.
In fact, the best communicators are often the best listeners. Various research reveals that during conversations, 55% of the information is passed on by studying the speaker’s facial expressions, 38% in the tone with which the words are said and just 7% come from the actual spoken words.
The following are some of the more specific reasons why listening is vital to communication.
Good listening skills lead to higher productivity
Take for instance in the workforce. If employees have great listening skills then their higher productivity is more likely, because they are able to understand instructions for projects and tasks. This means that management does not have to keep following up on them for needless reminders or fixes from misunderstandings.
Good listeners build rapport and earn better opportunities
If you are a good listener people will have growing confidence in you based on your performance track record. Coworkers, managers, etc. will give you work of higher value because they know you will get things done right. These are often the people who have greater opportunities for promotions, bonuses and the like.
Good listeners make good team players
Most of the time, companies delegate responsibilities in teams for ease of completion and to encourage participation. When the management gives instructions on what is supposed to be done on a particular project, most people fail. However, if your team has good listeners, then you are bound to get accurate results.
Good listeners hear what is not said too
When people speak, sometimes they ignore some of the non-verbal details. However, these small details could be cues for understanding deeper meanings behind what others are saying. Be mindful of what a speaker is saying, his or her tone and be attentive to the body language, including facial expressions.
Good listeners minimize distracting the speaker
At the end of a well-organized speech there is a time scheduled for questions and answers. However, sometimes, people may interrupt the speaker to seek clarification on various issues. However, often most of the points of speech are covered and questions are clarified by the end of a presentation. Therefore, if you are a good listener, you will write your question down and save it until the end.
Now that you know WHY listening or being a skilled listener is vital, you may wonder HOW can you be a better listener or improve your listening skills. Here is a great resource on one of my favorite (previous) blog posts:
Tips to Improve Listening Skills: http://ellieparvin.com/?p=667
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