Listen to the Podcast The warrior life as Michelle Rose interviews me on her show about how you can help prevent family drama during holiday season gatherings!

Have you ever seen the movie Four Christmases? (Starting Vince Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon) 

Since my parents aren’t married and we split the holiday celebrations, I feel like I can loosely relate to this story. I always get a great holiday laugh when I watch this film.  My husband however,  just doesn’t get the humor in the film.  His parents are still happily married and very traditional when it comes to holiday gatherings, sans the drama.  

Okay, so the truth is most of us don’t have to deal with such extreme family holiday gatherings, but sometimes there are touchy subjects that arise. We may be sensitive to the comments and opinions of others (especially when family say them). 

Are you dating?

Are you married yet?

What’s going on with your hair?

You still don’t have a job?

Aren’t you pregnant yet? Don’t you like children?

Have you gained weight?

Have you lost weight?

My incredibly talented friend and Podcaster on fire Michelle Rose, CEO of Michelle Rose Fit, asked me to share some of my communication tips with her listeners to help diffuse these situations and focus on enjoying the holiday season with those we love.

Here is the broadcast on The Warrior Life in iTunes!
Click Here –> Communication Tips to Avoid Drama with Family during the Holidays

Communication Tip Breakdown: 

Prepare

Drop expectations

Reminder: it’s not about you

Cultivate a positive attitude

Use Clear and Direct Communication Style

Be an Active Listener

Pay Attention to Non-Verbal Body Language

Instigate Laughter

Wait Before You Speak

Have a Safety Word — Mistletoe!

Have a happy, drama free holiday season!